Your content
You own what you post. Messages, files, clips and anything else you put into Tandem stay yours. We don't claim ownership of them.
To run the service we need your permission to handle that content: you grant us a worldwide, non-exclusive, royalty-free licence to host, store, copy, transmit, adapt for display and show your content, for as long as you keep it on Tandem and only for the purpose of operating and improving Tandem. That licence covers the ordinary mechanics of a chat app — making a thumbnail, transcoding a clip, syncing to your devices, indexing a message so search can find it.
Deleting your account takes your messages with it. Your messages and direct messages are deleted along with the account, on both sides. A space you created is handed on to another owner or admin so the people in it aren't stranded, and a space with nobody else in it is deleted. The detail is in how to delete your account and the Privacy policy.
You're responsible for what you post: that you have the right to post it, and that it doesn't break these terms, the guidelines, or the law.